Your body image is what you think and how you feel when you look in the mirror or when you picture yourself in your mind. This includes how you feel about your appearance; what you think about your body itself, such as your height and weight; and how you feel within your own skin. Body image also includes how you behave as a result of your thoughts and feelings.² You may have a positive or negative body image. Body image is not always related to your weight or size.

Women with a positive body image are more likely to have good physical and mental health. Girls and women with negative thoughts and feelings about their bodies are more likely to develop certain mental health conditions, such as eating disorders and depression. Researchers think that dissatisfaction with their bodies may be part of the reason more women than men have depression.³

A negative body image may also lead to low self-esteem, which can affect many areas of your life. You may not want to be around other people or may obsess constantly about what you eat or how much you exercise. But you can take steps to develop a healthier body image.

Yes. Girls are more likely than boys to have a negative body image. This may be because many women in the United States feel pressured to measure up to strict and unrealistic social and cultural beauty ideals, which can lead to a negative body image.⁴

White girls and young women are slightly more likely to have a negative body image than African-American or Hispanic girls and young women.⁵ However, cultural beauty ideals change over time, and it can be difficult to correctly measure a complicated idea like body image among women from different backgrounds.⁶ Children of parents who diet or who have a negative body image are also more likely to develop unhealthy thoughts about their own bodies.

In the United States, girls and women hear and see messages about how they look from the first moments they are alive, throughout much of their childhood, and into adulthood. Young girls and teens are more likely to be praised for how they look than for their thoughts or actions. The media focuses on showing women who are thin, attractive, and young. Images of these women are often edited using computer technology. As a result, girls and young women often try to reach beauty and body ideals that do not exist in the real world.¹

Past events and circumstances can cause you to have a negative body image, including:

• Being teased or bullied as a child for how you looked
• Being told you’re ugly, too fat, or too thin or having other aspects of your appearance criticized
• Seeing images or messages in the media (including social media) that make you feel bad about how you look
• Having underweight, overweight, or obesity

In rare cases, people can have such a distorted view of their bodies that they have a mental health condition called body dysmorphic disorder (BDD). BDD is a serious illness in which a person is preoccupied with minor or imaginary physical flaws. Learn more about BDD.

Women who have obesity are more likely to have a negative body image, but not all women who have obesity or overweight are dissatisfied with their bodies. Women with a healthy weight can also have a negative body image, although obesity can make a woman's negative body image more severe.⁷

Weight is not the only part of a person's body that determines body image. Self-esteem, past history, daily habits such as grooming, and the particular shape of your body all contribute to body image. Weight is an important part of body image, but it is not the only part.

Women who have underweight due to a health condition like an eating disorder, cancer, or Crohn's disease may have a negative body image due to the effects of their condition. Women who have underweight without another health condition may also have a negative body image if others comment negatively on their weight or express other negative attitudes.

Weight is not the only part of a person's body that determines body image. Self-esteem, past history, daily habits such as grooming, and the particular shape of your body all contribute to body image. Weight is an important part of body image, but it is not the only part.

Research shows that if you have overweight or obesity, your body image may improve if you participate in a weight loss program, even if you don't lose as much weight as you hoped.⁸ The weight loss program should include a focus on healthy eating and physical activity.

If you are underweight and have a negative body image, you can work with a doctor or nurse to gain weight in a healthy way and treat any other health problems you have. If you are eating healthy and getting enough exercise, your weight may matter less in your body image.

The more you practice thinking positive thoughts about yourself and the fewer negative thoughts you have about your body, the better you will feel about who you are and how you look. While very few people are 100% positive about every aspect of their body, it can help to focus on the things you do like. Also, most people realize as they get older that how you look is only one part of who you are. Working on accepting how you look is healthier than constantly working to change how you look.

Read 10 tips from the National Eating Disorders Association for creating a healthy, positive sense of your body.

Your body image plays a role in how your kids see themselves. Studies show that daughters are twice as likely to have ideas about dieting when their mothers diet.⁹ If you want to lose weight to get healthy, pay attention to the language that you use with your kids. Rather than talking about “dieting,” explain that you are eating healthy foods. Together with your family, cook healthy meals, order healthy meals at restaurants, and get more physical activity. Teach your children about smart food choices and help them develop healthy eating and exercise habits.

You can help your children develop healthy body images by:

• Making sure your children understand that weight gain and growth are normal parts of development, especially during puberty
• Not making negative statements about food, weight, and body size and shape — yours, your children's, or anyone else's
• Allowing your children to make decisions about food while making sure that plenty of healthy and nutritious meals and snacks are available
• Complimenting your children more on their efforts, talents, accomplishments, and personal values and less on their looks
• Limiting screen time. In addition to getting less exercise, kids who watch TV shows or movies or play online games often see unrealistic female bodies. Talk with kids about the media images you see.
• Encouraging your children's school to create policies against bullying
• Talking to your children often and showing them that you're always there to listen

You may be teaching your kids harmful habits if you:

• Often complain about your weight or your body shape
• Often try new “miracle” diets
• Tell your kids they would be more attractive if they lost weight

Yes. Many things can trigger weight concerns for girls or boys and affect their eating habits in potentially unhealthy ways:

• Having mothers who are very worried about their own weight
• Having mothers who are very worried about their kids’ weight and looks
• Natural weight gain and other body changes during puberty
• Peer pressure to look a certain way
• Struggles with self-esteem
• Media images showing the ideal female body as thin

Many teenage girls of average weight think they have overweight and are not satisfied with their bodies. Having extreme weight concerns — and acting on those concerns — can harm girls’ social, physical, and emotional growth. Skipping meals or taking diet pills can lead to poor nutrition and difficulty learning. For some teens, extreme efforts to lose weight can lead to eating disorders such as anorexia or bulimia. For others, the pressure to be thin can lead to binge eating disorder — overeating that is followed by extreme guilt. Girls are also more likely than boys to risk their health by trying to lose weight in unhealthy ways, such as smoking.

It depends. If you are considering cosmetic surgery, you must be honest with yourself. Why do you want surgery, and what do you expect surgery to do for you? It is never a good idea to have cosmetic surgery to try to impress someone other than yourself. If a partner or spouse insists on you having cosmetic surgery, that is a type of abuse, and you should tell a doctor, a family member, or someone else who can help you think through the decision.

Because the changes resulting from cosmetic surgery are often dramatic and permanent, it’s important to have a clear understanding of how surgery might make you feel — before surgery.

For more information about body image, call the OWH Helpline at 1-800-994-9662 or check out the following resources and organizations:

• 20 Ways to Love Your Body — Information from the National Eating Disorders Association (NEDA).
• Fostering a Positive Self-Image — Publication from the Cleveland Clinic.
• Health and Wellness — Information from Planned Parenthood.
• Media and Body Image — Publication from NEDA.

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